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    9 Tips for Writing, Even when You Don’t Feel Like it

    7 November, 2017 · Life, Writing · 0

    9 tips for writing with no inspirationThis year I am struggling. Struggling with my thoughts, regulating my emotions, and finding contentment. I wish I could tell you why (I wish I could tell myself why,) but I’m feeling a bit foggy and I can’t seem to shake it.

    Each year I look forward to September, the beginning of Autumn, because it is the time of the year I re-discover myself. Autumn is my new year. This year we had maybe a week of Autumn before, here in my little corner of Washington, it began snowing. That is not cool. I need a full Autumn season to be my best self for the rest of the year! 🍂 > ❄️

    In spite of the universe up and skipping my favourite season I am still pushing forward into November and trying to pull these poems out of myself, even when I feel a little less than inspired. In case inspiration has left you also, here are nine tips for writing, even when you don’t feel like it.

    1. Take a walk –

      Walking always helps me clear my head and I often hear, smell, or see things I wouldn’t otherwise see.

    2. Listen to some music –

      Not just any music, but some music that gets you, you know?

    3. Read –

      Sometimes reading a page or two from a good book, or a favourite poet, can help get me in the right mindset.

    4. Eavesdrop –

      Okay that sounds intrusive, but seriously some of the best dialogue can come from the conversations around you!

    5. Put down the technology –

      Writing with a pen and paper changes everything about how I interact with what I’m writing. Sometimes it’s just enough to get me thinking in a different way.

    6. Do something different –

      Anything other than writing! Go to the grocery store, take a drive, go for a run, create something (else) artistic.

    7. Use a prompt generator –

      No shame in this game! I use an app called “Prompts” to give me short word or line prompts and I keep refreshing until something sticks.

    8. Ask the Internet –

      Speaking of prompts, *sometimes Twitter has some great ideas! (Key = sometimes!)

    9. Just write –

      Completely clear your head and begin writing down any and all of the words that come into it. You’d be surprised what you might end up with.

    It’s much later than I intended to publish this post (or send out my NaNo email for the day), but I’ve got a poem to write so I’m going to call it for the evening. I hope these tips helped you even a little bit. Sometimes all we need is a little shift in perspective or someone else to say what we already know. Good luck – you’ve totally got this!

    xoxo m

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    i’ve made the decision to cancel the kickstarter i’ve made the decision to cancel the kickstarter for my second book. for now! the timing just isn’t right so i’m hitting “pause”. if you pledged, the money you committed will just stay yours – kickstarter doesn’t collect pledges until the end.

i knew that the timing was off before i launched. there was a little voice in the back of my head whispering, “it’s okay to push the kickstarter back” and i ignored it. even though i knew that i hadn’t laid the groundwork for a well marketed launch, that i hadn’t done any of the things that i needed to do for a successful campaign, i believed if launched anyway that everything would just work out. my goal was my angel number, after all!

a bunch of people signed up for my newsletter at a con i was just recently at and i promised them the first half of my second book as an arc if they did. i’m getting ready to send that out, so if you’re interested, click the link in my bio to sign up for my newsletter. it’ll hit inboxes this weekend.

like i said, this isn’t a goodbye forever! i’m going to pause, re-group, prep my materials, marketing, content (yada yada), maybe even finish the book ;), and re-launch this project later… i’m not sure how much later, but you’ll know. there will be signs.

thank you again from the bottom of my heart and i hope to see you again for take two.

🤍✨ mal
    it’s about time i shared a poem from the new boo it’s about time i shared a poem from the new book, huh?

this one’s called “bee poem” – aptly named, i think, since it’s about the furry little angels who keep our gardens looking so fresh. 🐝

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    “what’s a tree without a star?” – Miss Pig “what’s a tree without a star?” – Miss Piggy, but also probably Minnie Mouse

i always love seeing what new outfits the sensational six (plus chipmunks) are going to get into for the holidays @disneyparks. this photo is from a few seasons ago when i made an outfit to match Queen Minnie! a slightly different form of cosplay, i’d say. 😉

everyone in this group brought the sparkle, as they always do – look how magical and stunning my friends are! so many sweet, nostalgic memories of the past.

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    ✨ hbd to me — 25.11.25 i’m a few days late, ✨ hbd to me — 25.11.25

i’m a few days late, but no need to wax poetic!! this year i’m just grateful for the experiences i’ve had the opportunity to have, the lessons i’ve been lucky enough to learn, and the people i’ve been blessed to have and learn them with.

i’m so ready for next year; big things are coming. i’m honing in on the life i know i want to live and listening to my gut deeper than ever before.

yes i made myself a cake with 25+ pics of my ult bias: Jongseob from P1Harmony on it. 😍 also yes, we made it back to the purple hair timeline, y’all!

i LOVE my thirties!! thanks for being in my life. Xx
    This Sunday @geekgirlcon! Balancing Your Day Job This Sunday @geekgirlcon!

Balancing Your Day Job and Your Passion: A Survival Guide
Uhura room, Sunday, November 9th
10:30a-12:30p

I’m bringing back one of my favorite panels I’ve ever created — come join us!: Seeing a creative project to fruition is difficult enough, but when you’re an independent creative also juggling a full-time job how do you manage it all and not burn out? Whether your passion project is a side quest or a stepping stone to something bigger — join us for a candid conversation about time management strategies that work at all levels, maintaining your creative peace, and other actionable tips for balancing your 9-5 with your 5-9.

Panelists: @saraphoebee, @cblee_cblee, @kiricallaghan, and @anniedotashley
Moderator: me, @malaray!
    Tomorrow, Saturday @geekgirlcon! You are an Artis Tomorrow, Saturday @geekgirlcon!

You are an Artist!!!
Furiosa room, Saturday, November 8th
10:00-11:00a

If you don’t think of yourself as an artist we invite you to spend an hour with us and we hope we can change your mind. As a panel we each have a story in us, a point of view and a perspective that only we can bring to the world, and so do you. In our time together we’ll discuss art not only as escapism and joy, but also as sustenance — necessary fuel for movements, as a strategy for survival, and as a declaration of presence in a world that often tries to erase us.

Panelists: @itstashhaynes, @mrzacharysterling, @cblee_cblee, and @kiricallaghan
Moderator: me, @malaray!

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