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    9 Tips for Writing, Even when You Don’t Feel Like it

    7 November, 2017 · Life, Writing · 0

    9 tips for writing with no inspirationThis year I am struggling. Struggling with my thoughts, regulating my emotions, and finding contentment. I wish I could tell you why (I wish I could tell myself why,) but I’m feeling a bit foggy and I can’t seem to shake it.

    Each year I look forward to September, the beginning of Autumn, because it is the time of the year I re-discover myself. Autumn is my new year. This year we had maybe a week of Autumn before, here in my little corner of Washington, it began snowing. That is not cool. I need a full Autumn season to be my best self for the rest of the year! 🍂 > ❄️

    In spite of the universe up and skipping my favourite season I am still pushing forward into November and trying to pull these poems out of myself, even when I feel a little less than inspired. In case inspiration has left you also, here are nine tips for writing, even when you don’t feel like it.

    1. Take a walk –

      Walking always helps me clear my head and I often hear, smell, or see things I wouldn’t otherwise see.

    2. Listen to some music –

      Not just any music, but some music that gets you, you know?

    3. Read –

      Sometimes reading a page or two from a good book, or a favourite poet, can help get me in the right mindset.

    4. Eavesdrop –

      Okay that sounds intrusive, but seriously some of the best dialogue can come from the conversations around you!

    5. Put down the technology –

      Writing with a pen and paper changes everything about how I interact with what I’m writing. Sometimes it’s just enough to get me thinking in a different way.

    6. Do something different –

      Anything other than writing! Go to the grocery store, take a drive, go for a run, create something (else) artistic.

    7. Use a prompt generator –

      No shame in this game! I use an app called “Prompts” to give me short word or line prompts and I keep refreshing until something sticks.

    8. Ask the Internet –

      Speaking of prompts, *sometimes Twitter has some great ideas! (Key = sometimes!)

    9. Just write –

      Completely clear your head and begin writing down any and all of the words that come into it. You’d be surprised what you might end up with.

    It’s much later than I intended to publish this post (or send out my NaNo email for the day), but I’ve got a poem to write so I’m going to call it for the evening. I hope these tips helped you even a little bit. Sometimes all we need is a little shift in perspective or someone else to say what we already know. Good luck – you’ve totally got this!

    xoxo m

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Umbreon: @cosmic.reys.cosplay 
Espeon: me!
ty Jenna (@live_1000_lives) for filming for us!

#pokemon #umbreon #espeon #eeveeloutions #renaissancefaire
    a lil highlight reel of my espeon eeveeloution jes a lil highlight reel of my espeon eeveeloution jester costume for the Feast of Fools weekend at @washingtonfaire!

the hat is the part of the costume i’m happiest with because it was a cute, easy to wear hennin and it made me so recognizable because of the shape matching the ears so well! (i followed @drawingsbynicole’s pattern and tutorial!)

we gave out “canst though catch them all?” cards and had a scavenger hunt for people to find us all and get an ultimate, group trinket if they did. it was so fun! people got really into it. thank you @gingersnark for making the cards and @tays_cosplays for making the wooden trinkets! (i didn’t take good video of either but Ryan has a full vlog up on her page!)

and as always, go check out the other eevees—everyone looks stunnin!

Vaporeon: @live_1000_lives 
Flareon: @nonsensenanny 
Glaceon: @tays_cosplays 
Umbreon: @cosmic.reys.cosplay 
Espeon: @malaray 
Jolteon: @shakespeareandme 
Leafeon: @gingersnark
    faire so far. wouldn’t wanna do it with anybody el faire so far. wouldn’t wanna do it with anybody else—my eevees and beyond!

Vaporeon: @live_1000_lives 
Flareon: @nonsensenanny 
Glaceon: @tays_cosplays 
Umbreon: @cosmic.reys.cosplay 
Espeon: @malaray 
Jolteon: @shakespeareandme 
Leafeon: @gingersnark

weekends one and two, this year’s epic cosplay group, wanderings, Olive 🫒, party number two w/ @anikhanda22 and crew (boy do @highfantasyevents, @djblakew, and co know how to throw a party!!), photobooth.

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    If anyone is looking for a fun family activity ove If anyone is looking for a fun family activity over Memorial Day weekend come see my Irish dance company’s annual benefit show on Sunday! The show is free, but in lieu of ticket sales we’ll be accepting donations of diapers and wipes for families the local community.

Our dance teams (4-5 y/o up through adults of all ages!) will perform traditional Irish dances, original choreography, and even do a couple of demonstrations. Soft and hard shoe!

Sunday, May 24th at 7:00 p.m. – the show usually lasts about an hour and a half. All details in the images of the post. (Or DM me and I can send you the info, too. :)
    i’ve made the decision to cancel the kickstarter f i’ve made the decision to cancel the kickstarter for my second book. for now! the timing just isn’t right so i’m hitting “pause”. if you pledged, the money you committed will just stay yours – kickstarter doesn’t collect pledges until the end.

i knew that the timing was off before i launched. there was a little voice in the back of my head whispering, “it’s okay to push the kickstarter back” and i ignored it. even though i knew that i hadn’t laid the groundwork for a well marketed launch, that i hadn’t done any of the things that i needed to do for a successful campaign, i believed if launched anyway that everything would just work out. my goal was my angel number, after all!

a bunch of people signed up for my newsletter at a con i was just recently at and i promised them the first half of my second book as an arc if they did. i’m getting ready to send that out, so if you’re interested, click the link in my bio to sign up for my newsletter. it’ll hit inboxes this weekend.

like i said, this isn’t a goodbye forever! i’m going to pause, re-group, prep my materials, marketing, content (yada yada), maybe even finish the book ;), and re-launch this project later… i’m not sure how much later, but you’ll know. there will be signs.

thank you again from the bottom of my heart and i hope to see you again for take two.

🤍✨ mal

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